Trip to India

We try to do a big trip once a year to somewhere exotic and far away. This year we were invited to a friend's family wedding in New Delhi, India. I don't know about you. But on our list of exotic places to go, India is way up there. I had always been intimidated by traveling to India. This would have been the best time to go since we'd have friends guide us around and the rare opportunity to attend a traditional India wedding.

We spent less than 10 days there, but it was everything we had pictured and much much more. Can you imagine a 5-day wedding, where two families from different parts of India came together and combined all the rituals into one 5-day celebration? Everyday it was bursting with vibrant colors from decoration to saree to food.

And the food was every bit as delicious as we wished for. We got to sample cuisines from various parts of India as well, because the hosts wanted to cater to guests traveling from all over the country. The daily, or more accurately 3 times a day, chai ritual embodies the spirit of calm and peace. Though we couldn't get used to having housemaid serve us food and drinks all the time. We found ourselves constantly thanking and nodding to the servants.

And then there's the famous Taj Mahal and other tombs and forts built by various kings and emperors of the past. They are impressive to look at from a distance, but even more breath-taking at close-up. Every single piece of decorative pattern was hand-made and manually embedded in the walls, each with intricate detail. There were no plain flat surfaces anywhere except for the ground. Every wall is covered with patterns that were either carved out or embedded in.

I thought the most interesting side of India was what you see out on the streets, outside of well-groomed heritage sites and outside of homes of upper-middle class. In the western media you only hear about the double-digit growth of countries like India and China and about how the cream of the crop lives and spends. You don't hear or see this other side of India where people still live in vast poverty. It makes us feel so lucky and grateful for what we have.

To see more photos of India, go here, here and here.